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Hi again Jorja... and thank you for the lovely dances and your nice compliments, look forward to dancing with you again soon I hope,... yes I do indeed teach, in central Cardiff it’s every Thursday night at No 10 nightlcub... details on the front page of this website... :-)

WW.

Hi Tom... No, won’t be in Mambos on Friday, am away for the week end, but let me know what you think of it, you should enjoy. WW... hope to catch one of your classes soon, I shall definitely come along when I can! Look forward to it. Nice to link with you both. ^*_*^

Tom & Welsh Wizard you’re making this site a bit like a dating chat room. The drooling and flattery is a bit over the top and obvious! Thought salsa was about dancing not copping off!!

Why can’t salsa be about dancing and copping off. If Jorja didn’t take offence, I don’t see why you should. I don’t want anyone to be inhibited from trying to “widen their circle of acquaintances” via the forum. A bit more flirtatiousness would liven the place up.

Bubble I think you are wide off the mark here, especially with the comments on this post... I’m not sure exchanging pleasantries, compliments, good hearted banter etc actually counts as drooling/flirting and ‘copping off’. It’s just good etiquette if you have had a good dance with someone to say so. And to ask or tell if you want to know where and when that person will be out again so you can get another good dance or three.

The forums here are full of posts like this from a whole range of people. It’s what makes salsa not just about the dancing but about the social side too.

(And yes some of the people do end up dating, drooling, flirting, copping off and even getting married as a result... that’s up to them really!!)

WW.

Bubble, I can’t quite see how anyone can interpret my post as being about ‘dating’ or ‘drooling and flattery’ - it was a straightforward compliment from one dancer to another. I’m not single and I’m not looking to use salsa to ‘cop off’.

Bubble, I think you have misinterpreted two agreeable gentlemen talking about dancing and passing on pleasantries ^*_*^

Hi!
Just to say I haven’t been to Cardiff yet but it sounds fun so maybe soon, after holidays and work commitments. I’m a beginner, haven’t danced a lot... yet!

Also wanted to say it’s a shame some people can’t seem to tell the difference between friendly flirting and sexual flirting. In my humble opinion no-one is flirting sexually and everyone is just being nice and friendly. Wouldn’t it be a nicer world if we all said nice things to one another eh? Anyone who sees the last messages as being anything other than sociable is just plain silly.

Hi Jorja, it’s Jaki here, told you you were a fantastic dancer, (does that mean I’m gay?) I loved watching you dance with loads of different men, all shapes sizes and ages. Plus, I also know you really enjoyed your evening out, and you went home alone actually!! There is nothing wrong with any man appreciating a great dancer when they meet them. It also doesn’t mean they are trying to “cop off with her” either.

Good innocent fun and cheeky chatter is harmless and also good for moral. Please don’t confuse it with anything else!!

I may have come across as quite confusing just now, (I’ve had a good drink tonight) but what I would really like to say is. Well done Jorja for being a great sport who never refuses a dance, and well done guys for having the decency to praise Jorja for her abilities.