Many thanks Lisa. That was what I meant.
Hugh. Counting is important. I agree. Just like other factors such as getting the basics right, dancing to the music, when to dance, when to turn & spin, when to shine, how to pay attention to the person you are dancing with etc. Also to lead clearly so that the lady can follow regardless of the style (Cuban or NY).
Salsa styles, moves, expressions can also be up to each individual dancer. As long as you can see both dancers having fun & enjoying the music, that is the main thing.
It is just that some people start taking certain things so seriously that the fun side of salsa is disppearing!
One of my friends is a total beginner. She is a beautiful girl so one of the leading Cadiff salsa mens took her to the dance floor and tried doing triple turns, cross body turns and spins etc. As a show off. All that time, he was doing 1,2,3 this, 5,6,7 that, countingout loud with a stern face.
Then he had a go at her when she can’t follow (well... she only had 2 lessons. No one is perfect like that gentleman she was dancing with!). Where was the fun in that? She was put off from salsa since then. I DO see that A LOT on the salsa scene regardless of where you go.
That is my view. I don’t consider myself to be a great dancer (or Mr. I know everything about salsa) and I know that I still got so much to learn when I got time.
Like Lisa said, would be nice to see some people having fun on the dance floor. Whenever I get a chance to dance with Lisa or Nat or Irene etc, I always have a good dance regardless of how many mistakes I make or what style I try to dance. They help me with the moves, I learn, improve and at the end of the night I had a great evening.
Anyway. I am not going to get sucked into the verbal war so thanks everybody. Have a good evening...