Having read all the different submissions on the level of dancing and which videos to watch, I have been dancing for over three years and only got into it because people where helpful and spent time and put up with me treading on toes, bashing into people etc, all of which I still do but with more control and style.
I think it comes down to honesty and the teachers. People should know their limits and respect others.
I work in health and safety a lot and competence comes into all aspects, understanding ones own level is often hard to do but if you have doubts you should not attempt or consider doing risky things and the same should be said of those taking part in classes. They should be honest with how competent they are and what level they really are. They should step out and let others, whom are able to, enjoy learning new things. The one aspect in the Cardiff dance scene that is lacking is advanced classes. I think the reason behind this was so many people attempted to do them who where basically crap, and I include myself. It was unfair on those who wanted something more taxing.
I have stopped doing classes in Cardiff because of the number of people attempting higher levels who do not have some of the basics to do the class and the tutors are spending so much time explaining the basics, such as cross body leads etc It becomes frustrating.
To solve this for myself I have the odd private class to work on new moves etc and tidy my poor style, and I go to other nights around the country.
I do think that the tutors should be strict and if people can’t do the moves and hamper the flow they should be told to step out. This is the practice I have seen elsewhere and it works. People just need to know their limits and not attempt things they are not skilled in and spend time to fine tune moves, count to 4 or 3 or 2 whatever but make things work for them. They also need to understand space and control and, if male, how to lead and, for the women, how to be lead.
It should also be fun, then, when it is the social free dance, people of all levels should mix and ask each other and, if need be, put up with the odd interesting dance. You never know, you might enjoy it, learn something, or even meet someone new. But, all in all, know your limits!!!
Mighty